Where do single male firefighters go to meet single ladies.

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Permalink Reply by Harry Rogers on November 2, 2009 at 2:45pm

Hello Marianne,
You know there are many guys who say the very same thing. Now dont get me wrong or take this the wrong way but when many of us guys attempt to get to know a woman something always seems to happen. Women say "Oh, I want to have a long term relationship". I actually moved my whole life from New Jersey to Michigan for a woman whom I met online. Six years later she dumped me because she "found someone else online who lives in California". I am stuck here in this frozen tundra and I hate it. Honestly and truly, I never cheated, (I know that she did), I was always giving, (I know she wasnt), I reshaped my life for her, (she just totally screwed me).
I would love to meet someone and settle down, there just arent any women left for us "good guys"!

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Permalink Reply by Marianne L on November 3, 2009 at 9:27am

Hi Harry,

I am really sorry to hear that your last relationship didn't go as expected. When you invest a lot of time and energy into a relationship and it falls apart it really hurts, especially if you uprooted your entire life. I do feel for you being in the frozen tundra..brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....kind of a warm sunshine girl myself :-)
I have also had a romance or two gone wrong but I try to learn from the experience and move on with an open heart...not always easy to do. I do have to stop and catch myself sometimes from putting up those walls.
I would like to be your friend, even if you are wayyyyy up north :-)
Thanks for taking the time to send me your thoughts.

Marianne

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Permalink Reply by Loyd Dittfurth on November 3, 2009 at 9:56am

dam dude well atleast you didnt walk in and find her with your best friend

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Permalink Reply by Dave Stiel on November 14, 2009 at 8:30pm

Not sure..still looking myself for a single woman. LOL

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Permalink Reply by Barbara Leach on November 15, 2009 at 5:07pm

FDIC...*smirk*

LOL

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Permalink Reply by Daniele on November 19, 2009 at 7:34pm

Also there is the ever present problem for those of us in this line of work finding someone who can tolerate our schedules. Long shifts, unpredictable tone drops, being on scenes for as long as a "normal" shift... those people are far and few between.

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